Inner feelimgs (SEXUAL URGES🎀*)
One funny morning like that, I got a message from a lady asking;-
_"...Ma I want to know if you were having_
_sexual urges as a virgin single"_
I laughed so hard and rushed to gist my husband.
This question is not stupid it's just that _"waking up to read such a message in the morning gave me a good laugh"_
Sexual feelings/urge will always be there. There's a *natural urge which happens without you igniting it* and there's the *raging urge when you feed yourself with erotic stuffs.* When I was a single, My uncle thought I have become so spiritual to the extent that I wasn't having sexual urges.
How can you stay a virgin till your 30s if you are not some kind of goddess. (Laughs) Don't mind my uncle.
Infact, he jokingly told me that I would need to go do deliverance before my wedding to awake my hormones. (Rodfl) That was not true. I did feel "good" in my body but the Holy Spirit taught me to not entertain it. Especially during my ovulation period, *(ladies will understand and brothers too feel "good" at/during the night or early mornings)* I did feel "good"...
There were times I would wake up in the morning and had to quickly rush out of bed, have cold bath singing and shouting, distracting my cravings, I get busy till the "beautiful feelings" disappear. I speak in tongues but I wasn't a wood. (Smiling) I didn't feed the cravings with cool music, R & B, you know that R. Kelly song _"if I can just turn back the hands of time"_
No erotic movies or novels. I spiritualized☦ my eyes and ears. Did I eventually go for sexual-reactivation when I got married? Nothing like that.
I can't explain how it happened during my courtship, I still had "beautiful feeling " there were times I would hug him and wouldn't want to let go likewise himself. At Such times "either of us" would "make a cough sound " for "CAUTION"
*Few Months to my wedding I and my husband agreed I should stop visiting him in his house to avoid story that touches the heart..* .... *We spent most of our free time together with my family. It was fun.*
_To keep your courtship pure, you must take some steps._
🍢No sleeping over, *dress well but not seductively to "kill" him..*
🍢 *Suspend your sex talk Until your marriage is in view.* Avoid phone sex
🍢 *Kissing is not "manageable"* Some of you are belling the cat saying "No sex but we can kiss and romance"
💋Kissing is a chain of hundreds of other activities.
*What does your hands do while you are kissing? (👐🏻raised up??😅)* Touching, caressing, smooching privates, fondling breast, etc
Don't ignite the passion.
_"You may kiss your bride"_ is a sign of union! It means a union is initiated and you can now begin to explore each others body.
No kissing!
It was beautiful to have our first kiss before our wedding guests. People were clapping👏🏼 and cheering🤗 us on. I imagine God shaking His head and saying _*"That's right"*_
*When next you feel that "urge" celebrate God because your sexual hormones are working well! Yes! Engage yourself in good activities.*
If your case has degenerated into MASTURBATION you need to open up now! You can overcome it in Jesus name. *🗣Don't die in silence.*
*"Sexual urge is not a sin but what you do _WITH IT_ determines if you have sinned or not."*
*```"Walk in the Spirit, and you will not fulfill the LUST OF THE FLESH"```*
==Galatians 5:16
👍🏼You can do it!
*💯Total purity is achievable!!!!!*
#COPIED!!!
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